• Children Always Know When They Are Home Even If The Stepmother Is There! A wise advisor told me to always be 'home base' to my children.  She said that physical custody had nothing to do with being home base.  For some reason, this advice resonated with me.  I knew exactly what she meant.  Although, as a stepmother, I worried if I could do it. Home base meant a place to which you always

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    Some Stepmothers Are Bio Moms, Too As parents and step parents we all worry about our families and the decisions that we have made.  Remarriage?  Divorce?  New Siblings?  What damage have I done?  Or, have a done an awesome job? I'm going to ask my son, Ean, how his life is going and how my decisions affected him.  I don't know his answers and I'm curious to see if my thoughts and his

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    Every Stepmother Needs to Laugh https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGeKSiCQkPw

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    I have this habit of always thinking about the mother/stepmother in all situations.  If there is a top story about anything, my mind starts to think about the mother involved.  While the world is spellbound listening to Anderson Cooper reporting from a war torn location, I immediately think of his mom and how worried she must be. During the Casey Anthony trial, I was spellbound watching the

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    Steve Would Want You to LIve Your Life Your Way Steve Jobs made people feel as if they could do anything.  He energized and inspired his people and the world.  He defined 'cool' by living his belief in innovation.  Steve could make you believe that everything Apple did was special. He was about the details. Great business leaders can teach us much about how to manage our families,

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    If truth be told, I always thought I was my stepchildren’s fairy godmother.  It all made sense.  The story in my head went like this: I Would Fly In and Save the Day! My stepchildren’s parents divorced. They were very sad.  Then, the universe     decided to save them by sending a fairy godmother into their family.  (That’s me) This magical being was in disguise.  She looked

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    "You Don't Know Me" written by Cindy Walker & Eddy Arnold And anyone can tell You think you know me well Well, you don't know me... You may not be the mummy, but don't stay mum! Oh, you'll never ever know The one who loved you so. Stepmom bloggers live a terrifying existence.  We break the cardinal rule of step parenting.  "Keep silent."  We want to be transparent, but

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    I am posing with my cousin Ellen and Nancy. I'm the one that forgot to wear a shirt. The bow in the hair is cool!

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    Whew!  I thought I was crazy!  My life as a stepmom has been pretty insane.  Shockingly, at times, I thought I was dysfunctional. Today, my life has changed. As always, I have found that nature held the answer for me all along. I learned two important facts: 1.  Turtles breathe out of their butts 2.  Sea squirts eat their brains *I love them! Why is this relevant?  Now that I

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    What If You Were in the Memories Business? I have my M.B.A.  I often think about the first business class that I attended.  That class always started with the same lesson.  The professor would ask, “What business are you in?” Seems like a simple question.  Before you start any business, you must define what business you are in. For example, my husband’s business, Specialized Office

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